2022.01.17 14:31 EatMePrincess 🤔 Research says it takes about 50 hrs to build a casual friendship and 200 to build a close one🤔
Just read it here: https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/psychology-relationships-adult-friends.html.
So if you beat the lottery and managed to hang out with someone an hour a week for a whole year, you're just "casual friends"?
The article also says that it's easier to form friendships when you sing together. This has NOT been my experience. As someone who participated in every choral group and musical production I could throughout grade school, I was TOLERATED at best.
How do you guys form friendships? I'm at a loss.
And as for the 50 hrs, I spent 10 months going to flow jams every week from around noon to sunset (5-7 hrs), and I had to invite myself to be able to meet with everyone for food afterwards the one time I got to go (Everyone who stayed until the end always discussed getting food afterwards, except for me. I just figured they were part of a social group I'd never get to join.). I spent the time, but I don't think I ever fell into casual friendships.
I also used to regularly attend a swing and kink party, where I would sit at the "cool kids table" all night (4-6 hrs a night with an occasional walk through), mostly just listening. Once again, I fail to see myself as being "casual friends". At best, I was just tolerated.
Has the 50 hrs / 200 hrs worked for any of you?
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2022.01.17 14:31 Mamothamon Why did Japanese-Americans received reparations but African-American have not?
2022.01.17 14:31 burrekatt A broken 2700x and a couple of questions on what to do next...
The backstory first. Was removing components from my old Corsair Carbide 300r the other day, to move to a new Obsidian 750D, along with a new Corsair H115i. All fine until I made a big rookie mistake.
I waited a bit too long too pull out the old Wraith Prism cooler... CPU completely stuck to cooler, with four bent pins, and one pin completely broken off already. The socket on my Asus x470-f looks fine, but the obviously not the 2700X. Oops.
I'm thinking of getting a 5800X, but the newer Ryzen CPU's are only compatible from a certain bios update. Maybe a 3800X if it supporst the current bios update (if I find out what version it is). As I'm stuck with no main or backup CPU, I'm left unable to boot the computer at all, to check which bios update is installed on the x470-f.
I had my hopes up recently... but yeah, of course the x-470f has EVERYTHING, everything but a DAMN usb bios flashback function. If that was the case, I would've flashed the bios to newest update, even without a cpu installed, and everything would be just fine. But in this situation...
...I now have two questions:
2022.01.17 14:31 cooki3craft3r just chilin
2022.01.17 14:31 Nohan07 Présidentielle 2022 : Jean-Luc Mélenchon a-t-il fait huer la foule contre les vaccins ?
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2022.01.17 14:31 romain34230 La barre de son Samsung HW-A530/ZF est à moins de 180 €
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2022.01.17 14:31 ramedog Vinyl Discography/Compilation?
Sorry if this has been asked or exists - took a look and couldn't find it so thought I'd ask. Do you know if there has any information on whether a vinyl set that spans their studio albums may be coming or is that a pipedream?
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2022.01.17 14:31 strangerclockwork Ulta Beauty Free Gift w/ Purchase Deal
| Hey guys, |
I purchased a Jimmy Choo perfume today and they have a this deal:
Just an FYI before it sells out
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2022.01.17 14:31 Hot-Squirrel1467 Can anyone help me identify these Adidas?
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2022.01.17 14:31 DeadyDeadshot The virgin 80s
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2022.01.17 14:31 billionaire_bear Goodbye to our sweet little asshole Tommy. Obit in comments.
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2022.01.17 14:31 Melric PC- Texas, LFG
I just started playing this game, but have experience with COD, Battlefield 1, and other FPS games. Looking for a team to grow with. I’m a quick study, willing to try any class to get experience. I have a lot of free time and can be available most days and times for games. Central Standard Time. Melric3000 is my username on Steam.
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2022.01.17 14:31 theunicornatihascome I need help with getting faster at f2l
My average time right now is around 1:30 seconds, but i waste nearly a minute of that time doing f2l. I know the algorithms for corner pairs and so on, I just waste time trying to find where the two peices i need to pair are and where to put them. How can i improve this?
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2022.01.17 14:31 Kran3lis Golden retriever energy
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2022.01.17 14:31 skell1e Two robots I made hope you like them
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2022.01.17 14:31 mykal73 is there anything special about the handlebar brake lever?
My livewire got dropped and the very tip of the brake lever was broken off(the "ball" at the end). Can I use any Harley compatible brake lever to replace it?
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2022.01.17 14:31 CryptoNimmo Did anyone participate in the Ghostmarket IDO? Seems quiet in here about it.
I staked $2k worth of FLM to be able to buy $120 max of GM.😂🤡 Not sure how to get my FLM back now, still somewhat unclear on the process but wanted to support the ecosystem.
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2022.01.17 14:31 0Addler0 Which is the clan with the best heavy gunnery (cannons and such) in fall of the samurai?
2022.01.17 14:31 Head_Ad_6073 Hi. To clear up some of the negativity on this subreddit, here. (I will repost and repost to stop all this negativity)
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2022.01.17 14:31 Me-Slash Remember when covid didn’t exist and wasn’t a worry
2022.01.17 14:31 BenjaminDaaly21 [James Benge] Pablo Mari closing in on loan move to Udinese. Arsenal not expected to push for replacement, that would change if Calum Chambers also departed. As reported earlier this month, they'll consider offers for him but none forthcoming yet.
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2022.01.17 14:31 AutoNewspaperAdmin [World] - Cold case team believes it has solved the mystery of who may have betrayed Anne Frank | NPR
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2022.01.17 14:31 romain34230 Ordinateur de 1989 qui mine du Bitcoin à perte, tout comprendre sur la brutalité de l’éruption aux Tonga et savoir pourquoi autant de projets LEGO Ideas sont abandonnés, c’est le récap’
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2022.01.17 14:31 Ijustsaysh1t Glad to be moving out of peak season hours back to the cram-it-all-in-half-the-time hours.
2022.01.17 14:31 mayon3ggz What kind of fish is this?
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